Free Internet Radio: Psychology, Spirituality, Physics, Goosebumps

Posted on by

DSC_0305Enjoy September sunsets.

Follow Dr. Jeanette on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DorisJeanette

 

 

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Enjoy learning about yourself.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
Live at the Edge: http://www.ladybuglive.com/edge.htm

==========================

If you love to listen to audio, catch some of my 30 minute radio shows on Live at the Edge, free Internet radio. In the library are interviews with famous people like the transpersonal psychologist Dr. Charles Tart and the quantum physicist Dr. Amit Goswami.  Fascinating interviews with spiritual teachers Chris Chrisom, Laura Kamm and Lynn Andrews educate you about the subtle energies that surround you.

Interested in anxiety, depression and the process of transformation?  Listen to some of my solo shows where I share my new holistic psychology approach.  Suffering with emotional distress is not necessary.  These short audio radio shows educate you about real solutions to real problems.  You can even listen to a sample holistic psychology session with a woman who is getting a divorce.

Do you have goosebumps everyday? Many of the Live at the Edge radio shows are so exciting and enjoyable you could allow yourself to experience goosebumps right along with me!  My dear friend Harold Mesibov was a student of Dr. Barnes in Philadelphia when he was collecting his masterpieces from Picasso, Renoir and Matisse. My Live at the Edge interview with Harold turns into an inspiring, creative, art piece.

Not sure how much longer the Live at the Edge shows will be available on newvoices.com because my producer Georgia Jones is passing over. The Live at the Edge audio will be available until the end of the year at http://www.ladybuglive.com/edge.htm

I need help publishing my international Heart to Heart Columns, which were originally published by an English psychologist living in France. If you have editing skills and the time to work on a book project, please email me and let me know.

I am blessed to be hanging out with my mother this week as she turns 85.  Speaking of blessings, notice how often you bless something.  Then, notice how often you curse something.

You want to bless more things than you curse if you want to manifest positive energy in your life.

==================================

TRANSFORM YOUR ENERGY:  Join a small group in the forest at the fall Nature Workshop near New Hope, PA.   You play with energy, express your creativity and practice effective, assertive behaviors.  Near New Hope, PA, NYC and Philadelphia in the lovely fall trees.  Oct. 12, $200.00. Limited to 12 people to ensure you get what you need.

Sign up at:
http://www.drjeanette.com/natureworkshops.html

Emotional Health Tip: Use Nature and Body Awareness to Know Psychological Truths, Not Words

Posted on by

 

butterflies
Time to go see Monarch butterflies hanging out at Cape May Point, NJ on the their way back to Mexico. Nature is a great place to experience your emotions.

Follow Doris Jeanette on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DorisJeanette/

 

 

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Use feedback.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

==========================

Thank you for all the interesting questions and positive feedback about The Vibrant Moment articles on whining, feeling sorry for yourself and the sneaky way your ego blocks your healthy emotional expression.

You can apply the same psychological dynamics to other behaviors such as talking too much, not sharing enough about yourself, being impatient and listening with your mind instead of your heart. You can use the same awareness of psychological processes with any other unpleasant relationship behavior you may be afraid that you engage in.

For those of you who missed last week’s information on the Definition of Whining and the Definition of Healthy Emotional Expression catch it here:
https://thevibrantmoment.com/2013/08/21/personal-growth-tip-expose-self-pity-to-find-effective-behaviors/

Several of you mentioned that you are concerned when others tune you out or run away from you with their hands over their ears!  In other words, the other person does not want to hear what you are saying. You may be whining or you may be expressing your authentic emotions. It does not matter. This is when you need to use other people’s feedback to your advantage.

A very important relationship skill is the ability to pick up other people’s nonverbal and verbal clues.  So if someone tunes you out, stop talking. It does not matter if you are whining or expressing your emotions, if others do not want to hear you, stop talking. To continue to talk would not be fruitful.

You can discover if the block in communication is you or them by noticing your own behavior.  Remember, if you really are whining, there is a high probability you do not know that you are whining.  This means this unhelpful behavior is in your unconscious.

To be more intimate with others, you need someone to tell you when you are whining.  When others tune you out, this is a helpful indication to you that you may be whining or engaging in some other ineffective relationship behavior. This is not always true but it could be true.

It is up to you to find the proper place to expose your whining and get the help you need in transforming this ineffective relationship behavior into an assertive behavior.  Coaching, mentoring and therapeutic relationships were created to help you with all your ineffective relationship behaviors.

A good holistic psychologist does not reinforce your whining behavior by sitting there and listening to you feel sorry for yourself.  Nor does she react with judgment or discomfort. She is comfortable with your whining because she has learned to notice, accept and deal with her own whining.

Therefore, she gently helps you become aware of your whining, in an emotionally safe and nonjudgmental manner.  With kindness she teaches you how to stop judging yourself about the fact that you feel sorry for yourself. Next, she teaches you effective assertive behaviors that allow you to be closer to yourself and to others.

Let us come full circle back to the beginning example of how your ego tells you are whining when you are not whining. For those of you who missed it: https://thevibrantmoment.com/2013/08/14/assertiveness-moves-beyond-talk-therapy-into-nature-energy-and-power/

When you say to yourself, “You are whining and you must immediately stop whining,” there is a high probability that you are blocking your own authentic emotional expression. The other person is not tuning you out, you are inhibiting yourself. You learned to do this when you were a child.

When you pay attention to the emotional energy dynamics you discover the deeper psychological truth. The irony, the twist of reality, the truth is that you are inhibiting your healthy emotional expression when you accuse yourself of whining.

To transform this behavior, tame your sneaky critical ego and stop her from raining on your parade.  Learn to stand up to your Ms. Perfect and find healthy ways to express your authentic emotions. The presence of other people is not necessary.

Please post your feelings, thoughts and comments about self-awareness, emotional expression, personal growth and assertiveness below.

===============================

ALREADY KNOW YOU WHINE? Take the Assertiveness Training Home Study Course, “Stop the World From Pushing You Around: Six Weeks to Solid Self-Confidence.” Learn the relationship skill of how to pick up other people’s nonverbal and verbal clues. This course inspires you with energy, body and emotional information even if you have already taken an in-person Assertiveness Training course.  A 46 page manual and over 10 hours of Assertiveness Training audio coaching lessons with a live class.  $149.97 with a money back guarantee.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/assertivenesstrainingcourse.html

==================================

NEED TO EXPOSE YOUR EGO?  Take the fall Nature Workshop near New Hope, PA.  I provide a safe place in the forest to become aware of your sneaky ego, the feeling sorry for yourself energy and other annoying relationship behaviors. We play with our unhelpful energy and shift it into effective, assertive energy.  Near NYC and Philadelphia in the lovely colored trees.  Oct. 12, $200.00. Limited to 12 people to ensure you get what you need.

Sign up at:
http://www.drjeanette.com/natureworkshops.html

============================

Please share this blog with anyone who is interested in learning how to be happy, healthy and effective.

 

Relationship Advice: Expose Self Pity to Find Assertive Behavior

Posted on by

angleCornfield, angel and comfort near Valley Forge, PA

 

 

 

 

Follow Doris Jeanette on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DorisJeanette

The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Face the Truth.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
==========================

Continuing our pursuit of happiness, we are on a mission to discover if and when we are whining.

Last week you learned that it is essential to notice process and not content if you want to know the psychological truth of anything. Otherwise you are fooled by the words that are inside your head or being said by others.

You also learned that it is better to whine when you feel like whining than it is to depress, repress and deny your whining.  Here is last week’s free holistic psychology article if you have not read it.

I also promised to give you a clear definition of whining and healthy emotional expression this week so you know for sure if you are whining or not.

Huge Difference Between Whining and Emotional Expression

Definition of Whining

Whining is a high-pitched, out of control behavior that keeps you stuck in the victim role. Whining occurs when you feel helpless, hopeless, weak and miserable.  Your energy goes around and around in a circle repeating itself. You hear and say the same words, notes and tones over and over again.

When you whine, you are stuck. This means you do not move forward into positive or healthy energy.   You are in a psychological place that is similar to what physicists call a black hole.  You are stuck in a bottomless pit that is sucking energy from the outside in toward you. Your energy is black, dark, dense, grey, heavy and unhealthy.

Whining is only one of many ways that you feel sorry for yourself.  You also complain, blame, criticize and hide behind the “poor me” image.

I felt sorry for myself for years and my talk therapist never once mentioned this behavior to me. Therefore, I never stopped feeling sorry for myself because I did not know that I was feeling sorry for myself.

Definition of Healthy Emotional Expression

Healthy emotional expression is revealing the truth about how you feel emotionally. Emotional expression is not out of control or unconscious.  You are aware of your body and physical surroundings as you express your emotions and feelings.

As soon as you begin to express how you feel, your emotional state changes and shifts.  You are not stuck in the victim role.  Instead, as you continue to express your real emotions, you move forward so that you experience emotional relief.  You are more aware and alive.

Not only do you feel better when you express your emotions, you have more energy.  Emotional expression immediately adds vital energy to your body and energy field. Naturally, this makes you physically stronger.  Your energy is moving outward and you are not pulling energy toward you into a bottomless pit.

Your energy is colorful, moving, lighter and healthy. Different tones and pitches occur as you continue to express yourself through your natural process until the emotional issue is resolved. Then you feel emotionally stronger and more self-confident.

Notice When You Feel Sorry for Yourself

Awareness is the first step in transformation and successful personal growth. No one likes to admit we are feeling sorry for ourselves; it is just so uncool.

Nevertheless, everyone on the planet feels sorry for themselves from time to time. We learned it from our parents, religions and cultures.

Therefore, do not waste money, time and energy trying to keep the fact that you feel sorry for yourself in your unconscious.  Do not depress, repress or deny your whining.  The consequences of keeping your whining behavior in your unconscious are:

You:
Are unhappy and do not know the reason why.
Are unsatisfied in your relationships with others.
Feel like others do not love you.
Feel like others do not understand you.
Feel alone and isolated.
Think you are better than others.
Think you are worse than others.
Think everyone else is the problem and not you.

Finally, I left talk therapy and began to pay attention to process, my body and energy.  Soon, I noticed that I repeated the same behavior over and over again and this behavior did not bear fruit.

It dawned on me, while sitting in a comfortable chair in my living room, that I was feeling sorry for myself. Oh horrors of horrors! Reading energy, I discovered I was stuck in a black hole feeling sorry for myself and there I was going to stay until I learned a more effective way to get what I needed and wanted.

This awareness turned into an amazing relief.  At last I knew something I was doing that I could actually change.

===============================

LEARN TO EXPRESS YOUR EMOTIONS: The 3 hour audio emotional guide, Opening the Heart, takes you into your heart so you find, accept and express your authentic emotions.  You learn the different energies and how to keep moving so you do not get stuck in feeling sorry for yourself. Oh, horrors of horrors! $97.00, money back guarantee.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/emotionalhealthaudio.html

==================================

NEED HELP EXPRESSING?  Get the instructions, support and practice you need in being more assertive at the fall Nature Workshop.  Effective behavior is the most valuable gift you can give yourself if you want to be happy, strong and healthy. Near NYC and Philadelphia in the lovely colored trees.  Oct. 12, $200.00. Limited to 12 people to ensure you get what you need.

Sign up at:
http://www.drjeanette.com/natureworkshops.html

Assertiveness Moves Beyond Talk Therapy into Nature, Energy and Power

Posted on by

forest

Follow Doris Jeanette on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DorisJeanette

Walking the truth in the forest near New Hope, PA.

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Assert Your Truth.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

==========================

A reader of The Vibrant Moment expressed how she was feeling about some medical problems she just found out about in a recent email to me. Then she abruptly called herself out on “whining. ” Of course, as soon as she judged herself as whining, she immediately stopped sharing how she was feeling and changed the topic.

Do you block your emotional expressions by calling yourself names?

If you do, you are making sure you do not move forward into new, unexplored emotional territory.  If you want to do transformational work, which means you physically change your energy, you must express your truths no matter what they are at any given moment in time.

Of course, I do not encourage whining. However, are you really whining? Maybe yes and maybe no.   If you want to get to the heart of what is really going on with you psychologically, do not stop your truths at any point in time.

Even if you are whining, stopping yourself in this fashion keeps you from getting down to your unconscious truths.  While knowing the difference between expressing your authentic feelings and whining is important, it is even more important not to block self-expression in the moment it is happening.

This means it is better to whine so you can see that you are whining, rather than stop yourself from whining before you can tell if you are whining or not!  The act of controlling your energy is the oppressive psychological problem, not the whining.

Just imagine if you stepped back and look at your process instead of your words. As a holistic psychologist, I teach you to notice your process so you discover what is really going on inside of you and outside of you.  If you do not let your unconscious material surface, it continues to control you.  The only way to claim your power is to expose your truths.

If you stay stuck in the content, you quickly sink into psychobabble, which is what often happens in regular talk therapy.  You also reinforce your controlling behavior of trying not to whine.  You think that you are whining, complaining and being negative, but are you really?  And if you are, “So what?”

How much power would you have if you learned to notice the how, what, when, where and why behind your words?  When you pay attention to process, you quickly move beyond your thoughts and conditioned reactions into more physical data. Noticing your process gives you the energy needed to master yourself.

It does not matter if you are whining or not.  When you pay attention to your process, you may discover that you were not whining in the first place.  Or you may see that you are whining.  If so, you can learn a more effective way to get what you need or want.

Here is my clinical observation about whining and whiners.  When you judge yourself as whining, there is a high probability that you are not whining.  The whiner usually has no awareness of the fact that she or he is whining.  The whiner does not notice how she is being received by others because she is not conscious of it.

I will explain the energy difference between whining and expressing your authentic feelings and emotions next week.  In the mean time, help me do some research about what I just said about whiners. Observe yourself this week and observe other people. Is my clinical observation correct? Do whiners judge themselves and stop? Or do whiners keep whining?

Please post your feelings, thoughts and comments about self-awareness, emotional expression and whining below.

===============================

SEEKING TRANSFORMATION? The body and energy exercises at the fall Nature Workshop give you a safe place to express your truths.  Learn to notice and trust your process by having fun outdoors with an emotionally safe leader. Asserting your truths makes you stronger and more self-confident.  Sign up for the Nature Workshop near New Hope, PA, October 12, $200.00. Limited to 12 people to maximized your personal growth experience.

Read more and sign up:
http://www.drjeanette.com/natureworkshops.html

==================================

BACK TO SCHOOL ANXIETY?  Anxiety about leaving home, studying, being alone or meeting others keeps you from doing your best.  Order the “How to Study Guide: 7 Study Skills to Peak Performance” for your daughter or son before exam time:
http://www.drjeanette.com/7studyskills.html

You and your children learn effective physical ways to reduce anxiety naturally by taking the Home Study Course, Overcome Anxiety Naturally. http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyonlinecourse.html

Relaxation and Anxiety Help: Get Rid of Judgment and Live a Guilt Free Life

Posted on by

pillowThis pillow is waiting for you to relax. Rest easy and dream with the angels.

Follow Doris Jeanette on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DorisJeanette

 

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Enjoy the moment.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

==========================

August 7, 2013 is National Play Day. This is a great reminder for adults and children to get outside and have fun moving and grooving.

National Play Day is a wonderful follow up to my recommendation last week to the regular The Vibrant Moment readers. I suggested for good mental health you need to enjoy some pleasure every single day.  Here is the link if you did not read it: https://thevibrantmoment.com/?p=688

So, were some of you able to add more pleasures this week? I sure did. I call vibrant moments being in heaven on earth.

Here is a list of some of my heavenly moments:

Swimming in a beautiful blue pool cleaned and softened by rain water
Swimming slowly on my back looking up at the glorious blue sky
Strolling in Rittenhouse Park while giving and receiving smiles
Cooking walnut crusted trout, Swiss shard and corn on the cob
Eating walnut crusted trout, Swiss shard and corn on the cob
Relaxing in a lounge chair outside looking at green trees and insects flying around
Sipping coffee with bits and pieces of pound cake underneath a canopy of trees
Gently resting my head on my buckwheat pillow in clean sheets
Taking a warm, long shower after hard housework

If you were not successful in enjoying more pleasurable moments this week, ask yourself, “What stopped me?”

In the USA, our Puritan and Germanic backgrounds rewards hard work and staying busy.  If you work hard, you are rewarded.  If you do not stay busy, you are punished.  This means that if you want to avoid punishment you have to keep working and stay busy all the time.  This is what most people do.

Resting, doing nothing, relaxing and enjoying life is a sin. Yes, a sin.

This Puritan Ethic conditioning is hard to break free from once it takes hold in your body and psyche.  If you do not pay attention to how your conditioning stops you from enjoying pleasure, you cannot put into practice the action steps needed to break out of the bad habit of not relaxing.

At the age of 34, I consciously let go of control and relaxed.  Immediately, the most painful guilt experiences crippled me again and brought me back into control.    Every time I relaxed, I felt like a sinner. Every time I experienced pleasure, I felt like I was sinning.

No wonder I had such trouble learning how to relax in the first place! Every time I relaxed, I judged myself as lazy. Or to be more precise, I heard my father’s voice in my head calling me, “Lazy.” His judgment stopped me dead in my tracks and tightened up every muscle in my body.

Later in life when my father was dying, he confessed to me that he desperately wanted nothing more in life but to be able to put his feet up, kick back and relax. But he couldn’t. He just could not relax, no matter what he tried to do.

I suggested to him that he could stop making himself wrong when he relaxed. However, he was never able to rest, do nothing and enjoy just being in the moment. My father died an anxious man. While it is too late for my father, it is not too late for you.

If you listen, you can hear the exact judgments you learned from your parents, teachers and priests.  These mental judgments keep you from relaxing and being in the moment.  You must get rid of your mental judgments if you want to kick back and enjoy the moments of your life.

Of course, when you break free, you experience guilt.

Guilt is a given. This is when you really have to pay attention so you eliminate the irrational judgments in your head and keep moving forward.  If not, guilt puts you right back into darkness, anxiety and depression.

So, using learning research, I felt like a lazy person for a while and continued to relax my body.  I felt like a sinner over and over again, as I continued to enjoy the pleasures of living in the body.

Soon the control guilt had over me began to vanish and I could kick back and enjoy the moment without any guilt what so ever.

Share your feelings, thoughts and comments about guilt, guilt-free living, control, workaholics, Puritan conditioning and relaxation therapy below.

===============================

NEED HELP WITH GUILTY PLEASURES?  Guilt is the major block to receiving your daily pleasures.  Learn how to get rid of guilt and judgment so you give yourself pleasure every day. One-hour personal growth audio, $29.97, money back guarantee.

Read more and order: ”Find Peace Beyond Guilt and Judgment.”
http://www.drjeanette.com/guiltbuster.html

Free Bonus: Order “Find Peace Beyond Guilt and Judgment” before Monday, August 12 to get “Break the Grip of Anxiety Naturally: An Overview,” for free, a one-hour anxiety help audio, worth $29.97. http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyaudio.html

==================================

NEED HELP RELAXING?  Enjoy the body exercises in the Overcome Anxiety Naturally Home Study Course. Your body and mind will be glad you learned to kick back and do nothing before it is too late for you to enjoy the pleasures of being alive on planet Earth. Get 10 written lessons and 5 hours of healing therapy audio for only $149.97. Money back guarantee.

Read more and order your anxiety help course:
http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyonlinecourse.html

==========================================

Sexual Health Tip: Pleasure and Feeling Good is Best Holistic Health Medicine

Posted on by

pleasure

Relaxing in nature gives me a great deal of pleasure.

Follow Doris Jeanette on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DorisJeanette/

 

 

 

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Feel Good.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

=================================================

How often do you let yourself feel good?

Virginia Johnson, of Masters and Johnson fame, died at the age of 88 last week.  Reading the story of her life in the NY Times on Sunday sure did bring back some fond memories of being trained as a sex therapist at Temple Medical School in 1976.

1976 was a wonderful time to be alive and studying psychology on the East Coast.  Masters and Johnson had studied the physiology of human sexual behavior in a laboratory in Missouri. Their sex research was the basis of our training as sex therapists.

I had the physical facts:
1.  The size of the penis does not affect the pleasure a man can give a woman.
2.  Intercourse is not necessarily the best way to have an orgasm for a woman.
3.  A vaginal orgasm is exactly the same as a clitoral orgasm.
4.  Old people enjoy sex just as much as young people.
5.  Some women can have an orgasm without any physical stimulation at all.

At the Behavior Therapy Unit, we cured premature ejaculation in almost every man who walked in our door.  Premature ejaculation was easy to treat by reducing a man’s anxiety in the sexual situation. Using similar methods we dramatically improved every woman’s sexual response with and without a partner.

I became known as the sex therapist who was effective with the more difficult to treat erectile dysfunction clients and thus began my private practice. 1976 was an exciting time to be alive in Philadelphia, USA.

Controlling your body and emotions are in vogue in 2013.

In sharp contrast, today’s psychologists label you and physicians drug you for sexual problems, anxiety, depression and normal grieving.  Pleasure seems to be a no-no.  Feeling good seems to have gotten a very bad reputation.

Drugs diminish your feeling ability instead of enhancing your feeling ability. Medications impair your ability to have whole body, sensual, delicious orgasms. Please remember, sex is only one of several ways you can experience pleasure and have an orgasm.

If you want to enjoy more vibrant moments and holistic health in your daily life, stay away from drugs and medication. Drugs mask problems, cure nothing and stop you from feeling good.

Do you avoid pleasure in your daily life?

Notice how often you stop yourself from having pleasure this week. Little pleasures, big pleasures. Mental pleasures, body pleasures, heart pleasures.  If you do not let yourself feel good and experience pleasure, you are sure to become weaker and weaker until you get sick.

Before you know it, your mind wanders away, your behavior becomes addictive, your body atrophies and your heart attacks you.  All of these physical results are trying to get your attention. Your real self is screaming at you, “Let me feel good!”

You need pleasure to achieve holistic health, happiness and a sustainable future. Give yourself time every day to receive pleasure in any form. Choose your pleasures based on your personal needs and desires.

Tell me about your favorite pleasures and psychological blocks to feeling good below.

===============================

NEED HELP WITH GUILTY PLEASURES?  Guilt is the major block to receiving the pleasure you need in daily life.  Learn how to get rid of guilt and judgment so you give yourself time for pleasure every day.  Study the self-help information in the ”Find Peace Beyond Guilt and Judgment” audio to be more successful in feeling good more often. One-hour holistic psychology audio, $29.97, money back guarantee.

Read more and order: ”Find Peace Beyond Guilt and Judgment.”
http://www.drjeanette.com/guiltbuster.html

Free Bonus: Order “Find Peace Beyond Guilt and Judgment” before Monday, August 5 to get “Break the Grip of Anxiety Naturally: An Overview,” for free, a one-hour anxiety help audio, worth $29.97. http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyaudio.html

==================================

YOUR PARTNER SUFFERING FROM PE?  The special report, “Say Goodbye to Premature Ejaculation: 7 Steps to a Better Sex Life,” could be all that is needed to turn anxious sex into sensuous sex for both of you. PDF file, 25 pages, $47.00, guaranteed.

Read more and order “Say Goodbye to Premature Ejaculation: 7 Steps to a Better Sex Life:”
http://www.drjeanette.com/prematureejaculation.html

==========================================

SUMMER SPECIAL: Take advantage of the slow summertime to
amp up your pleasure and holistic health. Get the personal
guidance you need to solve any problem. After the first session you know exactly what to do to move forward. Enjoy experiential sessions that are
not available elsewhere. Pay for two holistic psychology sessions and get the third session free. Last session must be used by September 30, 2013.
Get three-hour sessions for $400.00. You save $200.00. Limited
number available.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/privatehumanenergy.html

Holistic and Mental Health Tip: Let Your Body and Energy Move

Posted on by

 

hands

 

Body inhibition starts at a very early age. Notice my little hands and face. I was not happy all dressed up for Sunday.  I felt out of place and was holding a great deal of energy back in my hands.

 

 

 

 

The Vibrant Moment:  Let Your Body Change.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

=====================================

What interesting body experiences did you have with the Change Your Mind Exercise last week?

For those of you who missed “The Five Main Ideas of Quantum Physics” and how they support the transformation of anxiety, depression and other unpleasant mental health behaviors, visit: https://thevibrantmoment.com/2013/07/17/natural-health-and-wellness-tip-use-quantum-physics-and-metaphysics/

Rigidity is not natural.  Living in a box is not normal.

According to quantum physics, you never have to be stuck in anything.  The only way you get stuck is when you control yourself in such a way so that you are forcing yourself to stay rigid. Your own inhibition is what keeps you locked in a boring box.  Inhibition is learned behavior.

This means your brain has to work really, really hard to keep your body and your energy from doing what it automatically wants to do.  Your body and your energy want to move, change and rearrange all the time, all day long.  This natural movement of energy happens inside of every cell in your body and outside in every space around you if you do not actively DO SOMETHING to stop it from happening.

The negative result of trying to keep everything under control is a dramatic depletion of your energy.  Energy depletion is what makes you tired, sick and depressed.  You are using up most of your available energy just to keep yourself in a box.

This is in sharp contrast to using your available energy for fun, pleasure and accomplishing your goals in life.  Let this physical fact soak into your bones so you know how important it is to be aware of your own human energy in everyday life. You can change anytime you are ready to change. You can use the laws of physics to help you enjoy life more fully.

Ask yourself:
Do you really want to use your energy to stay in a box?
Or are you just conditioned to “not move” without the means to stop this from happening?

Since you have to exert a great deal of effort and energy in order to stay stuck in one form, one behavior, one identity, one ego, you can stop putting your energy in this direction.  If you stop controlling yourself and inhibiting yourself, you naturally become your best self.

All you have to do is learn to recognize when you are controlling yourself, when you are out of control and when you are in reality.  Then you have the means to shift out of rigidity when you want to do so. You can let go of control and enjoy the natural movement of reality.

You automatically move into a new place where something changes. It does not matter what changes. Any change is positive, good and healthy. Let your body and energy move.

===============================

NEED HELP GETTING OUT OF YOUR BOX?  Recognizing your own energy leads to freedom and joy. The first section in the Amazon E-book, HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART AND STOP THE HURT: Mend Your Relationship Heartache With Self-Love by Dr. Jeanette explains the different types of energies so you learn to recognize them.  You discover the difference between being in control, out of control and in reality.  With this knowledge you have the means to shift out of rigid, controlling behaviors when you are ready to do so. You can read this book on any computer or iPad by downloading a free reader.

Pick up your copy at Amazon for only $3.99:
http://www.amazon.com/HEAL-BROKEN-HEART-STOP-ebook/dp/B00AO7DU2E/

==========================

SUMMER METAPHYSICS CLASS: Move out of your box into the laws of nature. Join me for a one-hour tele-seminar on some of the laws of physics and metaphysics that help you create more pleasure and vibrant moments in your life. Sign up for the tele-seminar, “Master Your Life.”  Monday, August 5, 6:00 PM, ET.  $29.97.

Everyone who signs up gets an audio recording mp3 of the class so you do not have to be present during the phone call. Sign up now:  http://tinyurl.com/lqm6fac

==========================================

SUMMER SPECIAL: Take advantage of the slow summertime to amp up your personal growth program. Get the personal guidance you need to move in natural health and wellness ways.  After the first session you know exactly what to do to let go of control. Enjoy experiential sessions that are not available anywhere else. Pay for two holistic psychology sessions and get the third session free. Last session must be used by September 30, 2013.  Get three hour sessions for $400.00. You save $200.00. Limited
number available.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/privatehumanenergy.html

Natural Health and Wellness Tip: Use Quantum Physics and Metaphysics

Posted on by

GREECE_2

Greek Temples Elevated the Human Body, Heart and Spirit with Beauty and Knowledge.

 

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Seek Knowledge.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

==========================================================

Are you interested in the nature of reality?
Do you explore the essence of the world around you?

If so, you are interested in metaphysics. Metaphysics is a traditional philosophy that literally means that which follows physics.

Aristotle wrote 14 books on metaphysics during the time in history when seeking guidance at Delphi was routine practice.  The most educated leaders and generals respected the answers received from the Priestess of Apollo.

So much so that Alexander the Great made sure to visit Delphi, which is a lovely, peaceful place, before he left to go conquer the world. He was relieved and encouraged with the answers he received.  I am sure the energy from Delphi gave young Alexander extra self-confidence so he could follow his destiny.

Today if President Obama or Hilary Clinton visited a woman who received answers from Universal Energy about their next move, she or he would be considered ridiculous, superstitious and crazy.

However, common sense tells you that there has to be a great deal of information and knowledge that exists beyond your tiny, little conscious brain.  Scientists know for sure many universes exist beyond our planet and there are huge amounts of space in between the cells of your own human body.

Quantum Physics helps you understand the scientific nature of metaphysics.

Here are a few truths about Quantum Physics to help you explore the “stuff” that is in between the matter you relate to, the inner knowing that exists inside of you and the outer knowledge that you can tap into anytime you choose.

The Five Main Ideas of Quantum Physics:

1. Energy is not continuous, but comes in small, discrete units.
2. Elementary particles behave like both particles and waves.
3. The movement of these particles is inherently random.
4. It is physically impossible to know both the position and the momentum of a particle at   the same time. The more precisely one is known, the less precise the measurement of the other is.
5. The atomic world is nothing like the world we live in.
Source material at:  http://library.thinkquest.org/3487/qp.html

Another way to say this is that the real world is nothing like you think it is.  As a holistic psychologist, I can tell you this is exciting mental health news! Holistic health and vibrant moments are a definite possibility for everyone–no matter what.

What this means for you is that you:
1.  Can let go of your false beliefs about what reality is.
2.  Can let go of your conditioning about what you should and should not do.
2.  Perceive new, more helpful information directly from reality.
3.  Can change anything you want to change within the laws of physics and metaphysics.
4.  Have the power to affect matter and create new forms.

You do not have to hold on to what you think is true, because what you think is true is probably not true at all!  Or if it is true, it is only true because you continue to hold on to your false beliefs. This means you behave in such a way that you reinforce your rigid thoughts and make them come true for you.

Niels Bohr said, “Anyone who is not shocked by quantum theory has not understood it.”  Reality blows your mind.   Once your mind is blown, you can move away from your rigid thoughts into more effective, creative thoughts.

Change Your Mind Exercise

When something upsets you this week, write it down on a piece of paper.  Any problem or situation that you start obsessing about goes on your piece of paper.

After you write your problem down, then read it out loud. This is what you think is true. Next, say out loud, three times, “This can change.” “This can change.” “This can change.”

Notice how your whole body feels when you say, “This can change.”

Share your thoughts and feelings about quantum physics, reality, mental health, holistic health and metaphysics below.

==========================

SUMMER METAPHYSICS CLASS: Move beyond your beliefs into the laws of nature. Join me for a one-hour tele-seminar on some of the laws of physics and metaphysics that you can use to create more holistic health and vibrant moments in your life. Sign up for the tele-seminar, “Master Your Life.”  Monday, August 5, 6:00 PM, ET.  $29.97.

Everyone who signs up gets an audio recording mp3 of the class so you do not have to be present during the phone call. Sign up now:
http://tinyurl.com/lqm6fac
============================================

HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON?  You could be a HSP who can tap into metaphysical energy with more ease than others. Or you may want to become more sensitive so that you can perceive the exciting energies that exist inside of you and outside of you.  This special report helps you trust and move past the psychological blocks that keep you from using your natural gifts so you can be more effective and successful. Order the special report, “7 Steps to Success as a Highly Sensitive Person.” PDF file, $19.97, money back guarantee.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/HSP2.html

==========================================

SUMMER SPECIAL: Take advantage of the slow summertime to
amp up your personal growth program. Get the personal
guidance you need to move through grief, depression or guilt into healthy emotional states.  After the first session you know exactly what to do to move forward. Enjoy experiential sessions that are
not available anywhere else. Pay for two holistic psychology sessions and get the third session free. Last session must be used by September 30, 2013.
Get three hour sessions for $400.00. You save $200.00. Limited
number available.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/privatehumanenergy.html

 

Depression Help: Sing the Blues to Keep Moving Through Your Grief and Grieving

Posted on by

whitelakeA fun time at White Lake, North Carolina

Notice the little girl playing with the water instead of looking at the camera. That’s me. My love affair with water began at an early age.

 

 

The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Sing Your Blues.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

==========================

It seemed like nothing mattered anymore. I didn’t care if I went swimming or not, even though swimming is my favorite activity. I did not care what I ate, even though looking forward to delicious food and yummy tastes used to be a daily pleasure.

How often to you feel blah, blue or bored?

I mentioned two weeks ago that it is easy to get stuck in depression during the natural grieving progress.  Take note of the losses you have suffered recently that you need to grieve so that you can move forward instead of getting stuck in depressed energy.

Have you lost your:
Job?
House?
Partner?
Youth?
Health?
Freedom?
Best friend?
Beloved animal?
Beloved trees?

When grieving any type of loss, the natural process of feeling your authentic emotions takes many turns and twists until you begin to feel better and heal your heart.  Anywhere along the natural, normal stages of the grieving process, you can become blue, melancholy or depressed.

To heal your heart, you need to feel sad and not get stuck in depression.

This means you need to feel blue and keep moving through your grief as your emotional energy carries you along your own unique emotional healing process.

If you begin to feel melancholy, this means you are slowing down. If you are slowing down, this means you are inhibiting some of your authentic emotions and feelings as they surface.  If melancholy lingers too long, you are slowing down your energy so you become blah and stop enjoying life.

If you enter the mental health state called depression, you have inhibited your healthy emotional energy so much that you are stuck. Depression means you are not moving forward at all.   Depression is a dark, heavy state where you are numb and nothing matters.  You have stopped feeling blue and as a result you do not enjoy anything anymore.

Your vital emotions keep you moving forward in the natural grieving process.

The Indians call the emotional body, which is part of your energy field, the vital body.  This is because your vital body is full of colorful, strong, potent emotional energy when you are healthy and emotionally strong. When you are stuck in depression, your vital body is dark, grey and dense.

When you inhibit your healing emotions of grief you get stuck in depression.  Losses are natural and normal life experiences.  The feelings of sadness about your loss are also natural and normal no matter what medical authorities or friends tell you.

Give yourself permission to fully experience your loss.

Allow your grief and grieving to be natural and normal so that you heal your heart and become emotionally stronger.  When I noticed I was depressed, I decided to get back into my grief and grieving.  To help me get out of the dumps, I began to sing and hum the blues.

I put my comforting audio in my ears to help me stay in the hurt so I transformed my loss into more vital energy and aliveness.  Thank goodness, swimming is pleasurable again.

Please share your thoughts, feelings and feedback about grief and grieving, emotional health, the stages of grief, hurt and loss below.

==========================================

LISTEN TO COMFORTING AUDIO: “When You’re Hurting…” audio was highly praised by the late Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, MD, author of On Death and Dying. “When You’re Hurting…” was made to help you stay in your hurt so you keep moving forward as you grieve your natural and normal emotional losses.  My comforting voice is relaxing, reassuring and helps you let go of the hurt so you do not get stuck in depression. One hour stand alone audio, “When You’re Hurting…” for $49.97.

Order “When You‘re Hurting…” one hour grief and grieving audio: http://tinyurl.com/q4dfhy4

Or order the three hour emotional health guide, “Opening the Heart.” You receive “Fear: The Pathway to Freedom and Joy”, “Feelings: The Source of Authentic Love”, and “When You’re Hurting…”, all three for $97.00.

Read more and order the “Opening the Heart “audio:
http://www.drjeanette.com/emotionalhealthaudio.html

===================================

SUMMER SPECIAL: Take advantage of the slow summertime to amp up your personal growth program. Get the personal guidance you need to move through grief, depression or guilt into healthy emotional states.  After the first session you know exactly what to do to move forward. Enjoy experiential sessions that are not available anywhere else. Pay for two holistic psychology sessions and get the third session free. Last session must be used by September 30, 2013. Get three hour sessions for $400.00. You save $200.00. Limited
number available.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/privatehumanenergy.html

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Transformation Tip: Fear is Good for You, Anxiety is Bad for You.

Posted on by

anxietyThe Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Feel your fear.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychologist
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

==========================

A reader of The Vibrant Moment wrote me this week and asked a very important question about fear. Below you will find information about how to deal with fear effectively so that you do not live your life with regrets.

“Dear Dr. Jeanette,

I wanted to thank you for your Vibrant Moment newsletter. It always seems to deliver a key message that somehow manages to enlighten whatever I am going through in that moment.

I appreciate what you have written about peak performance and the importance of relaxing. I am wondering though how you approach fear? Sometimes I feel fear is so important. When I look back on my life, the most terrifying moments have also been the most rewarding. I do not ever regret doing a scary thing, but I often regret not trying a scary thing.

What role does fear play and how might we negotiate with it to go for what we want? Can it be useful or is it a hindrance? Can fear be positive?”

This question goes to the heart of why fear must be properly addressed if you want to enjoy more vibrant moments, relaxation, peace of mind, holistic health and peak performances.  You do not want fear to stop you from living fully, richly and with meaning and purpose.   However, if you deny your fear and pretend like you are not afraid, you fool yourself into thinking you are fine and you are not fine.

The authentic emotion of fear is always helpful, positive and good.

One of the major ways my new holistic psychology approach is different from others is that I teach you how to use fear effectively.  Fear is real and helps you move safely through real dangers so that you are on solid ground as you go along the pathway of transformation and personal growth.

Anxiety is not helpful, good or positive.

Anxiety is not the same energy as fear.  If you deny or exaggerate your fear, you upset your body and your emotional self so much you become anxious.  The more you deny or exaggerate your real fear, the more anxious you become.

Anxiety is an unhealthy response to any situation.   Anxiety is like static on the radio; it interferes with anything you do.  This is the reason your anxiety must be reduced if you want to experience peak performances and peak experiences.   You cannot make love, ace the putt or fulfill your dreams if you are anxious.  Anxiety tightens your body, making you physically and emotionally sick.

On the other hand, fear is your ticket to freedom, joy and getting what you want. This means you must learn to feel your real fear so you use its authentic energy to safely move toward your desired goal.  The title of the second hour of audio in my Opening the Heart series is called, “Fear: The Pathway to Freedom and Joy.” This title expresses the physical truth that the real energy of fear leads you directly and safely to that which you desire.

Making friends with your fear allows you to negotiate a safe pathway so you do what you want with your life with mastery and success.  If you deny or exaggerate your fear, you will not get what you want because you will be too anxious even if you think you are just fine.

Therefore, it is very important to feel your real fear because it keeps you safe so you know when you are secure enough to let go of control and enjoy whole body relaxation, peak performances and joy.

Please share your thoughts, feelings and feedback about fear, anxiety, holistic health and peak performances below.

==========================================

ANXIETY OR FEAR? It is imperative that you learn the difference between how fear feels in your body and how anxiety feels in your body. The one-hour audio, “Fear: The Pathway to Freedom and Joy” teaches you how to ride your fear energy with mastery toward your desire. The information is securely based on learning research so you get the help you need to master your destiny. One hour stand alone audio, “Fear: The Pathway to Freedom and Joy” for $49.97.

Order your mp3:
http://tinyurl.com/kx5m7tt

Or order the emotional health guide, Opening the Heart and get “Fear: The Pathway to Freedom and Joy,” “Feelings: The Source of Authentic Love,” and “When You’re Hurting…,” all three hours for $97.00.

Read more and order the Opening the Heart audio:
http://www.drjeanette.com/emotionalhealthaudio.html

========================================

NEED HELP REDUCING YOUR ANXIETY? Take the Home Study Course, “Overcome Anxiety Naturally,” get all three hours of the Opening the Heart audio series PLUS two more personal growth audios and 10 written lessons for $149.97.
Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyonlinecourse.html

FREE BONUS! Order “Overcome Anxiety Naturally” before
Monday, July 8 and get a free bonus audio, “Hear Your Body Talking”, a one-hour body language audio, $29.97.  Must mention The Vibrant Moment in the check out box to get free audio.
http://www.drjeanette.com/hearyourbody.html

==================================

SUMMER SPECIAL: Take advantage of the slow summertime and amp up your personal growth program. Get the personal guidance you need to enjoy more holistic health and peak experiences.  After the first session you know exactly what to do to move forward. Enjoy experiential sessions that are not available anywhere else. These are not talk therapy sessions.  Pay for two holistic psychology sessions and get the third session free. Last session must be used by September 30, 2013.  Get three hour sessions for $400.00. You save $200.00. Limited number available.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/privatehumanenergy.html

=================================