Peak Performance Tip: Use Relaxation Therapy to Relax into Your Personal Growth Flow

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Relax your body.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
Live at the Edge: http://www.ladybuglive.com/edge.htm

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Relaxation is the optimum state of the organism.

Dr. Joe Wolpe, the father of Behavior Therapy, first introduced me to this physical reality back in 1975.  The physical evidence to support this basic psychological principle is quite clear and cannot be denied by the human brain. This is one of the reasons I base my original, holistic psychology approach on body awareness and physics.

For example, consider the amazing statistic that people who are drunk miraculously survive car accidents at a much higher degree than those in the same car who are not drunk. The anti-anxiety drug qualities of alcohol explains the reason drunk people get hurt less in car accidents than those who have a tight, tense and anxious body.

Out of all the drugs available on the legal and illegal markets, alcohol is by and far the very best and safest anti-anxiety drug available to humankind.  Alcohol relaxes the physical body and helps reduce your anxiety for the period of time that alcohol is in your system without the serious side effects of psychiatric medications.

While wine and beer are excellent at shutting up your inner critic so your body can relax, it is not wise to use any medication or drug as relaxation therapy.  Instead, you need to learn how to relax your body with your own awareness if you want to reach the optimal state of relaxation.

Relaxation is not a drugged state.  When you are drugged, you are physically slower, mentally muddled and out of touch with your surroundings. You mess up your performance, you do not improve it.  You may survive car accidents because your body is relaxed but if you are the driver you could also be the reason the car is out of control in the first place.

So forget drugs or medications of any sort and choose relaxation therapy.  With successful relaxation therapy you can learn how to relax your body so you perform at your peak.  When you are relaxed, your body is able to handle a much higher degree of stress, trauma, fear and anxiety without damage.

In addition, in the relaxed state, your body will operate at its maximum without thinking.  Look at the performance of basketball players. Once they start thinking, they cannot even sink their free throws. This is because getting in their head ruins their physical performance.  On the other hand, when basketball players are relaxed, they get in the flow and nothing can stop their balls from dropping into the basket.

Peak performance will also happen to you when you relax and get in your flow.  You may want to improve your performance at lovemaking, cooking, swimming, administrating or making money.  In all cases, the more you relax, the better your performance will be.

Put relaxation therapy at the top of your to do list if you want to be successful, feel better and manifest your dreams.

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RELAXATION THERAPY HOME STUDY COURSE: Get the guidance you need to stop your thinking from making your body tight and tense. The Home Study Course, “Overcome Anxiety Naturally, ” successfully shows you how to feel your body and relax into your physical form.  $149.97, money back guarantee.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyonlinecourse.html

Order by Monday, March 4 and get the special report,”7 Steps to Success as a Highly Sensitive Person” for free. It is not unusual for the HSP to have more trouble than most relaxing and trusting their intuition, instincts and human energy flow. 31 page PDF file worth $19.97.
http://www.drjeanette.com/HSP2.html

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RELAXATION THERAPY ON THE BEACH: Attend my spring Nature Workshop in Cape May, NJ, Saturday, May 4 to get some Relaxation Therapy practice along with lots of Assertiveness Training practice. The theme this spring will be “Pleasure.” How much pleasure can you experience before shutting down with guilt?  As a Vibrant Moment reader you can sign up early and get a discount off the $200.00 fee.  Group Relaxation Therapy on the Beach is limited to 12 men and women.

Read more and sign up:
http://www.drjeanette.com/natureworkshops.html

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VIRTUAL GROUP RELAXATION THERAPY.  If you have taken the “Overcome Anxiety Naturally” home study course join a  follow up group to continue strengthening your relaxation response.  We will meet on Skype with or without the video once a month for four months.  I will help you fine tune your relaxation response so you improve your performance in any area you want. The group will take place on the first Wednesday night of each month beginning at 6:30 PM, ET, in May.  Cost will be $149.00 for four hour sessions, limited to six people. Email me about your interest. Group times and dates can be changed if members need them changed due to prior commitments.  Email at drjeanette.com

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Want Holistic Health? Reduce Anxiety Naturally, Face Fears, Be Assertive, Become More Alive

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Expand your world.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
Live at the Edge: http://www.ladybuglive.com/edge.htm

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While snorkeling in Hawaii, out in a big, ocean tide pool, I encountered a giant 150-year-old green sea turtle.  As soon as her large, old, wrinkled neck and huge bobbing head came into clear focus, I grabbed my heart, stopped breathing and gasped.  She was bigger than me.

Hanging still in the water which was connecting us, I paused in wonder and awe.  This ancient sea turtle was resting her head on a large rock and resting her huge body upon the bottom of the sea.  I did not move for a very long time. Being so physically intimate with this powerful creature transformed me.  I will never be the same.

How big is your world?
How much bigger could your universe become?

Some people stay in the little safe pond they were born in and never have the courage to swim a little harder and further in order to reach a bigger pond.

Just think, if you worked hard enough you could reach the bigger pond and maybe even adventure out into the open ocean.  If you did, you would have many great adventures like a close encounter with an ancient sea turtle.

Of course, it takes a certain amount of time, energy and effort to become strong enough to swim a current that might be pushing you back to the smaller pond.  However, if you put your mind to becoming stronger and braver you will succeed.

What are the reasons you give yourself for staying in the little pond?

In reality, you are not any safer when you stay in the little pond close to home.  Most accidents happen in the home and within 5 miles of the home. 77% of car accidents happen within five miles of home.  You could say it is more dangerous to stay in the little pond than it is to travel out into the wondrous world around you.

What more important things do you have to do with your time than experience new exciting adventures?

Get the help you need to face your real fears and overcome your irrational anxiety so you have more pleasurable, exciting adventures in 2013.

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OVERCOME ANXIETY NATURALLY: Facing your real fears is like learning to walk. You must learn to become stronger and braver, one step at a time. Get the guidance you need with my 10 body awareness lessons in the Home Study Course, “Overcome Anxiety Naturally.” Plus five hours of audio including the best selling emotional health audio, “Opening the Heart.” $149.97, money back guarantee.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/anxietyonlinecourse.html

Order by Monday, Feb. 25 and get the special report,”7 Steps to Success as a Highly Sensitive Person” for free. It is not unusual for the HSP to have more trouble than most with anxiety. 31 page PDF file worth $19.97.
http://www.drjeanette.com/HSP2.html

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SAFE ADVENTURES: Nature Workshop at Cape May, NJ, Saturday, May 4. My Nature Workshop gives you a personal growth adventure that will transform you so that you will never be the same. The theme this spring will be “Pleasure.” How much pleasure can you let yourself experience before shutting down?  There will be lots of practice being assertive in all areas but especially when it comes to adding more pleasure to your life.  As a Vibrant Moment reader you can sign up early and get a discount off the $200.00 fee.  Group Adventure Workshop is limited to 12 men and women.

Read more and sign up: http://www.drjeanette.com/natureworkshops.html

Sign up before March 15 for $150.00.
To get the discount you must mail a check to:
Doris Jeanette
503 S. 21 St.
Philadelphia, PA 19146

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The Best Valentine’s Day Gift? “Love Yourself,” Says Holistic Psychologist

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Your feet loved to be touched and massaged so go ahead and do self massage.

The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Love yourself.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

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How much do you love yourself?

How many times a day do you find fault with yourself, your body and your heartfelt emotions?

How many times a day do you accept yourself, your body and your heartfelt emotions?

Valentine’s Day is a wonderful time to think about love in all its glorious forms.  Valentine’s Day is a lovely gift from the Catholic Church which has not always been kind to the body and the heart.

If you celebrate Valentine’s Day, it gives you an opportunity to be more loving.  The person who needs love the most is you. You need to include yourself on the list of people that you remember and reach out to on Valentine’s Day.

Self-love is forbidden. You are not suppose to love yourself, your body and your emotions. No, you have been trained, conditioned and brainwashed into rejecting, ignoring and hating yourself.

If you are in denial of how much you reject yourself, look into your body, heart and unconscious for the factual data.  Your unconscious will tell you the truth if you listen.  Sadly, all of humanity suffers from massive self-rejection.

The same Catholic Church which gave you St. Valentine also taught you to never touch yourself or give yourself pleasure.  Heaven forbid if you touch yourself for sexual pleasure. You have to confess to committing a terrible sin.  It is even unlawful for the holy Catholic priests to have a healthy, loving, sexual relationship with another human being.

Whether you are a practicing Catholic or not, you have been taught similar judgments about your basic physical and emotional needs.   You have been taught to fix, deny, control and hide your real self. These teachings are not healthy.

Self-rejection is not good for your mental, emotional  or physical health.  Therefore, I suggest you say goodbye to any learnings you have been taught that involve self-rejection.

Instead, learn to accept your real self and protect your body and heart from the fault-finding part of you.

For example, give yourself a wonderful Valentine’s Day gift by loving your body and sexuality in some concrete pleasurable way.  Whether your gift is a warm, relaxing bath or a full body orgasm, take the time to savor the self-loving energy.

Also, celebrate Valentine’s Day by honoring the most precious part of you.  Honor your heart which houses your colorful emotions.  Stop all activity. Place your hand on your heart, take a deep breath and let go.

As you exhale, send love to your physical heart and emotional self. Let yourself experience your precious emotional energy without making it wrong.  You will discover deep truths and inner knowings.

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FEEL YOUR HEART AND EMOTIONS:  The eBook, “HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART AND STOP THE HURT: Mend Your Relationship Heartache With Self-Love,”  is available at Amazon and iTunes. It is not necessary to own an eReader device to purchase the eBook. You can download free software and read it on any computer, iPad or smartphone.  This self =-loving information shows you how to accept yourself so you can stop the learned practice of self-rejection. The cost has been lowered from $4.99 to $2.99 until Valentine’s Day, 2013.

To read more about the eBook visit:
http://www.drjeanette.com/mendbrokenheart.html

To order “HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART AND STOP THE HURT: Mend Your Relationship Heartache With Self-Love” by Dr. Doris Jeanette visit Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AO7DU2E

If you know someone who does not have a computer and you want to order it for them as Valentine’s Day gift via a pdf file email me.

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LOVE YOURSELF: “Opening the Heart” audio warms the heart, relaxes the body and offers you hope for a better future.  Let my comforting voice guide you into self love and out of self rejection by taking the time to breathe, relax and feel.  You will listen to this loving audio over and over again to help you love yourself. Three hours, $97.00, money back guarantee.

Read more and order:
http://www.drjeanette.com/emotionalhealthaudio.html

Order “Opening the Heart” audio by Monday, Feb. 18 and receive a free audio worth $29.97 that will help you love your body. Your body will love you for listening to “Hear Your Body Talking.”
http://www.drjeanette.com/hearyourbody.html

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