Holiday Advice: Take Action On Self Improvement, Personal Growth for 2012

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This time of year is a great time to take a look at the whole
year and see how much you have accomplished in both your
personal and professional life.

Enjoy and celebrate your successes. If you do not have a lot
of successes to admire and enjoy, you probably did not take
action.  Doing nothing, means getting nothing.

Therefore, it is important to acknowledge the areas you were
not successful in.  The self-improvement goals that you did
not take action on could be the first thing you put on your
New Year’s Resolutions list for 2012.

As you enjoy your holidays look at your life and make some
positive decisions.  Decide to accomplish something wonderful
this year. You can reach a goal that you need, want or desire.

There is no doubt that taking appropriate action will result
in getting what you need, want or desire.

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Family Relationship Advice, Holiday Advice: Self Improvement Works

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Two weeks before Thanksgiving, an older client of mine was
upset because her son and son-in-law had a long history of
fighting and ruining every holiday dinner.

The situation had reached a standoff so that the two of them
would not attend the same event.  My client did not know what
to do.

For years, I had been supporting her in maintaining healthy,
loving relationships with both of them.  During our session,
she had the brilliant idea of bringing in her son for a
consultation to see if we could get him to feel more
emotionally secure and self confident.

Sure enough, helping her son feel more love was enough to
bring about dramatic changes in the whole family dynamic
during Thanksgiving Day.  Unbelievably, everything went
well, no blow-ups, verbal attacks or dramatic departures.

The reason this holiday ended so well was because the son
was relaxed enough to defuse the unpleasant emotional energy
dynamics that were being set off between him and his sister’s
husband.  His increased self-confidence stopped both of them
from being triggered into defensive reactions.

You can also get ready psychologically for your holiday
family encounters.

Don’t walk into family situations without getting ready. You
can take appropriate actions now to prepare yourself for
being around the people who gave you your tender buttons!

You can become more emotionally secure and self-confident.
Self-love will help you relax and enjoy yourself during the
holiday family gatherings.

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Holiday Advice: Relax, Enjoy Giving Meaningful, Creative Gifts

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Having to buy Christmas gifts, Hannukah gifts and Kwanzaa
gifts could add a lot of extra anxiety to your life.  This
would be if your gift giving is a “should.”

You know the phrases in your head…. You” should” do this
and “should” do that.  “Shoulds” and “should nots” make you
very nervous and put tons of pressure on you to do something
fast, quick and right now!

Obligatory gift giving is based on guilt, judgment and
resentment. These psychological qualities create energy that
is not physically or mentally healthy for you.  Therefore,
you do not want to stay stuck in the energy of guilt,
judgment or resentment for very long.

Gifts do not have to be “shoulds” and they do not have to
cost a lot of money. For example, if you make your gift, it
does not have to cost you anything. If you give a meaningful
gift it does not have to cost you more than you need to spend.

If you are being controlled by “shoulds”, shift gears.

Move out of your brain down into your heart.  Feel the love
you have for the person you want to give something to. Then
let your creativity come into play.

Be creative instead of anxious.

Let new ideas come into your awareness.
Relax and allow new information to come your way.
Make a fun Christmas gift for a loved one.
Give a gift that is meaningful and helpful.

Parents:  Set a good model for your children. Enjoy the gift
giving that you do and do not spend more money than you can
afford to spend on anyone, even your children.

Psychologists and Other Healers: Help yourself and your
clients access the real feelings of love for this season.
Teach your clients how to stop letting “shoulds” and “should
nots” control them. Teach them how to transform their
anxious, nervous and scrooge-like energy into love.

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Self Improvement, Parenting Tip: Find Your Natural Walk

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Yesterday while I was looking out the window of my second
floor Center City home in Philadelphia, I saw a young adult
male walking down the street in his normal quick stride.
Unfortunately, he was holding the hand of a little boy.

The little boy was over two feet behind his father who was
looking straight ahead. The adult male was not alternating
or adjusting his speed for his companion.  As a result, the
little boy was being dragged down the street.

When I see little children being pulled or pushed like this
I wonder, could this be the beginning of their anxiety?
What is that little boy learning as he is being dragged down
the street?

Take a moment to notice your walk, your pace, your speed
through life.

Did you learn to walk faster than your normal pace?
Did you learn to speed up to keep up?

Or did you learn to honor your own pace, your own speed,
your own way of being in the world?

Parents:  Pay attention to what you are teaching your child
as you walk down the street.  Notice how often you push or
pull your daughter to fit your pace instead of allowing her
to have her own pace.

Psychologists and Other Healers: Notice what you are teaching
your clients.  Do you rush from one person to the other? Do
you move too fast, too quick? Do you adjust or alter your
pace to fit your client?  Are you listening to your inner
child AND your client’s inner child?

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