The Vibrant Moment – Remember:  Trust the truth.

Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Human Energy Coach, Mentor
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
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Who do you trust?
What energy do you trust?

A young man in Pakistan wrote me and told me his story.
He explained that he felt bad because he just broke up
with his girlfriend.  He confessed, “The relationship
ended because I never trusted her.”

He never did trust her. He always suspected her of
kissing and hugging other men. The end result was his
heart was broken. He does not know what to do.

Here is a portion of my answer to him, “At the age of
two is when you learn to either trust or distrust the
world you live in. If your parents are honest,
reliable, dependable and allow you freedom of
expression, you develop trust.

If your parents are dishonest with others, unreliable
in relationship to you, do not meet your physical needs,
ignore your emotional needs and inhibit your full body
expressions, you learn to distrust your world.

Given the degree of distrust that you have, I would
suspect that your parents are in this later category.”

This means this young man is stuck in the distrust that
he learned in his past.  At this moment in time, he does
not trust anyone enough to help him get out of his
vicious circle of unhealthy energy.

He is:
1. Projecting his distrustful past on his girlfriend.
2. Looking for evidence to prove that she cannot be
trusted.
3. Creating evidence to confirm that she cannot be
trusted. This could be imagined or created as a result
of his distrusting behavior toward her.
4. Concluding that he was right, she could not be trusted.

Thus, he is stuck in his own projections from his past.

If you are trapped in a vicious circle, you need to find
some energy in a person or in reality that you can trust.
The energy of truth is different from the energy of
projection.

If you can find someone or something to trust, the energy
of truth will show you the way out of your helplessness.

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Develop trust.

Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Human Energy Coach, Mentor
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Do you have a heartache? A broken heart?
Do you feel alone even in your loving relationship?

When the trust in a relationship is broken, it creates
deep emotional wounds. Trust is broken when people
blame, attack, criticize and seriously hurt each other.

If you do not heal your deep emotional wounds, you will
not have satisfying intimacy in your current
relationship. If you break up or get a divorce, you
will still continue to repeat the same hurtful
emotional patterns in new relationships.

The best relationship advice I can give you is to heal
your heartache and mend your broken heart.

This means you need to put your major focus on healing
your original wound. The original wound was when the
trust between you and your parents was first broken.

Your trust was broken when one or both of your parents
blamed, attacked, criticized or seriously hurt your
precious feelings.  The parent you love the most could
be the one who hurt you the most.

My mother loved me completely. I loved my mother
completely.  We were emotionally attached and very close.
My trust in her was complete.  Yet, she was the one who
once hurt my feelings so badly that I never forgave her.

I was devastated and vowed to never, ever again share my
feelings with anyone.  This was the moment my heart closed.
I was six.

Later in life, at the age of 34,  I suffered a broken heart
when my beloved betrayed me. This was the turning point
in my life.

Instead of avoiding my emotional pain, I chose to feel my
hurt and pain. The pain in my heart led me to my original
emotional wound at six with my mother.

As a result, I was able to heal my heartache and open my
heart.  I learned how to build trust in relationships by
learning how to trust myself. I developed a trusting, loving
relationship with my emotional self.

You can do the same. You can choose to feel rather than avoid
your hurt and pain. This is the best relationship advice you
can follow if you want to reach inner peace and happiness.

You will become weaker if you continue to avoid your pain. You
will become stronger if you find your original wound so you
can heal it.

The healing process is the same if you are in a loving
relationship, breaking up with your partner or getting a
divorce.

Mending a broken heart is the work of the Divine.

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Become stronger.

Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Human Energy Coach, Mentor
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
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Often people do not get help with their love relationship
problems until it is too late.  So the relationship ends
in a divorce or a break up.

The major reason love relationships end in a divorce or
a break up is because one or both of the people stop
growing.

For example, a client of mine was working on her anxiety
attacks and her husband would not participate.  She was
becoming more relaxed and he was not. She was becoming
more assertive. He was not. She was getting stronger.
He was not.

The relationship ended in a divorce because he did not
do anything to improve himself.

If he had learned to relax and become more assertive,
the relationship would have flourished.

The solution to healthy love relationships seems so simple
and reasonable.  However, so many people choose to suffer
great pain instead of improving their emotional and mental
health.

It is a given that your past learning issues will surface
in love relationships and cause you problems. There is no
way to avoid this reality.

Therefore, you can engage in personal growth while you are
in your love relationship or you can wait until you get a
divorce or break up with your partner.

The action you need to take is the same. You need to become
more loving, self-confident and emotionally secure.

To achieve these goals, you need to learn to reduce your
anxiety, become more assertive, love your emotional self
and open your heart.

After a divorce or break up you are in great pain.  This
emotional pain is the gift that can help you grow.  If
you engage in positive self-improvement behaviors, you
will not repeat the same pain again in your next love
relationship.

Therefore, if you are in or out of a love relationship,
be brave.  Learn to relax, become more assertive, love
your emotional self and open your heart.

The end result is that you will be stronger.  So, no
matter what others choose to do, you will be enjoying
colorful, vibrant moments of being alive.

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Manifest your dreams.

Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Human Energy Coach, Mentor
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
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Have you tried to attract more money using the law of
attraction and failed?

Have you tried to use the secrets in the “Secret‚” to
manifest the relationship you want with no results?

The first step in manifestation is to use your intention.
This means you set your mind on your goal.  Thus, you
intend to attract money.  You intend to attract a
healthy, loving relationship.

However intention is not enough. The reason intention is
not enough is because other factors can easily render
your intentions impotent.

For example, there are many psychological issues that
can stop you from manifesting your dreams.  As I moved
through life, I become more and more conscious of how I
stopped myself from manifesting more money by feeling
unworthy to have lots of money.

Whenever I received a lot of money, I felt guilty and
like I was doing something wrong.  Guilt will certainly
stop you from manifesting more money!

You may not be aware of the psychological issues inside
of you. However, if you look, you will find your
psychological issues in your unconscious.  Your
unconscious is full of all the thoughts, feelings and
emotions that were unacceptable to your conscious mind.

This means the inner psychological work you need to do is
diving into your unconscious and coming up with the truth
about how you really feel about yourself and money.

You cannot override your anxieties, doubts, judgments and
false beliefs without bringing them to your conscious mind.
Otherwise, these energies render your intentions impotent
on a daily basis.

Once you bring your truths to the light of your conscious
mind, then you need to learn how to let go of your
anxieties, doubts, judgments and false beliefs so your
intentions can manifest.

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holistic psychologist, Doris Jeanette, a licensed
psychologist with 35 years of experience teaching
people how to read and use energy to unlock and use
their human potential. She is the author of “Opening
the Heart,” “Overcoming Anxiety Naturally” and 14
other self help products. Her Holistic Psychology
Mentoring program is for people interested in
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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Be yourself.

Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Human Energy Coach, Mentor
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How much pressure do you feel to stay within your gender?
How much pressure do you feel to relate “correctly” to
another person’s child, based on gender?

The story of the Canadian parents who do not want to
pressure their child into a specific gender-based
identity has created a fury of energy around the globe.

Notice the energy in the media. Notice the energy in the
parents. Notice the energy in you.

Can you tell when energy is too fast, full of static and
judgmental? Energy that is too fast, full of static and
judgmental is anxious energy. Anxious energy is not healthy
energy.

The idea of a “gender-neutral baby” or “genderless baby”
has tapped into the high anxiety people have en masse
around the world about sex and gender.

If you are upset at not knowing the gender of a baby, you
are probably anxious.  If you are upset at not knowing the
gender of an adult, you are probably anxious.

Your anxiety shows you how controlled you are by gender.
The fast, racy energy in your nervous system reveals how
much pressure you feel to behave a certain way based on
gender.

Most people do get extremely anxious when they do not know
the gender of a person. This is the reason the parents of
Storm Stocker want a gender-neutral or genderless baby.

The mother of Storm Stocker has seen the consequences of
this strong, bullying pressure to be something that you are
not.  She says, “All my life I’ve worked in the field of
abuse and violence prevention.” Abuse and violence are one
of the ways parents control their children.

Upper class, socialized parents use more subtle behaviors
such as bullying, shaming and humiliating their child into
appropriate gender-based roles.

The pressure to behave a certain way based on gender is
controlling, inhibiting and unhealthy. Most mental health
labels and emotional problems would disappear if
professionals, parents and governments did not succeed in
controlling children based on gender.

I admire any parent who is willing to raise a free and
healthy child.  I support and encourage all parents to give
up controlling your children and pressuring them into
narrowly defined, inhibited identities.

To be healthy, the future parenting needs to move toward a
gender-neutral baby or genderless baby position.  Good
parenting involves protecting your child from any pressure
and control.

If parents, professionals and governments took a
“gender-neutral baby” or “genderless baby” position,
many current human problems would be solved.

For example, the anxious judgments against women,
homosexuals and transgender humans would disappear.
Suddenly, the world would be a much safer, happier place
to live for all of us.

Storm Stocker’s mother is not trying to keep anything a
secret; she is trying to raise a healthy and free human
being. She does not want to pressure and control her child.

Her open and loving position is healthy. Your child needs
your love, no matter what color they like to wear, what
physical activities they prefer and how tender their
emotional expressions.

You need self-love, no matter what you feel or how you
express yourself. You need both your male and female
qualities to survive in this world.

The more androgynous you become, the more relaxed and
comfortable you will be with yourself.  This means you accept
and love your gender without controlling yourself to be
someone you are not.

As a self confident person, you will protect all our children
from abuse, shame and embarrassment.

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Look at yourself.

The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Get a Check Up

Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Human Energy Coach, Mentor
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com
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I think it is strange that people rush to get physical
check ups once a year but they do not get a mental check up.

You need a mental health checkup because your mind creates
the problems in your life, including the physical problems.

When your mental health is not good, the quality of your
life is not good. You experience poor health, poor
relationships, poor quality of life.

Here are some questions to assist you in checking up on
your mental health.

Answer these questions honestly with either a “Yes,”
“Sometimes” or “No.”

1. I am happy and excited to get up in the morning and
go to work.
2. I relax my body and rest several times a day, throughout
the day. (This does not include watching TV, reading
or computer time.)
3. I do not think the same thought more than three times.
4. I know what I am feeling in the moment.
5. I can express what I am feeling to others.
6. I move around freely and am physically active during
the day.
7. I am aware of my physical surroundings and feel
connected to these realities throughout the day.
8. I have a purpose and am fulfilling it.
9. I am comfortable with others in silence.
10. I am comfortable with myself in silence.
11. I am a conscious breather and notice when I stop
breathing fully into my belly.
12. I am comfortable being excited and animated.
I3. I am spontaneous and free.
14. I experience full body vibrant moments at least
twice a week.

If needed, read the definition of a vibrant moment:
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For each “Yes,” give yourself a 1, for each “Sometimes”
a 2, for each “No” a 3. Add them up for your total.

Look below and get your results.

14-19—You have a High Quality of Life and Good Mental
Health, you probably are actively engaged in self
improvement.
20-25—You are moving toward life and need to amp up the
areas where you notice yourself missing out.
26-30—You are missing out on many vibrant moments of
living.  Your life is lackluster, ordinary and mundane.
31-37—You are moving away from life and need to become
more aware and alive.
38- 42 —Your Quality of Life and Mental Health needs
serious improvement.

Take one of the questions you answered “No” to and
begin to shift it into a “Sometime.”  To be successful,
you need to use a skillful holistic psychologist, coach,
mentor, or teacher who can teach you new skills which will
increase your body and energy awareness.

If you are a psychologist, physician, massage therapist or coach:
Pay attention to your own mind and how it causes problems in
your life. Notice how your thoughts control and inhibit
your vibrant moments.  Then notice how your clients let
their mind dominate their lives. Help them expand their
self-concept beyond their mind.

If you are a parent: Never underestimate how your mental
health affects your children. Notice your mind and how you
use it to control yourself and your children. An unhealthy
mind can quickly destroy a happy family outing.

You have the power and ability to prevent poor health,
poor relationships and poor quality of life by improving
your mental health.

Get a mental health check up and follow through with
effective actions.

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If you enjoy The Vibrant Moment, please forward it
to friends and colleagues. It comes to you from
holistic psychologist, Doris Jeanette, a licensed
psychologist with 35 years of experience teaching
people how to read and use energy to unlock and use
their human potential. She is the author of “Opening
the Heart,” “Overcoming Anxiety Naturally” and 14
other self help products. Her Holistic Psychology
Mentoring program is for people interested in
learning how to sense energy so their effectiveness
dramatically improves.

For weekly holistic psychology principles, mind body
reminders and encouragement sign up for “The Vibrant
Moment” at http://www.drjeanette.com.