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Bodyful, Notice How You are Moving: More Haste, Less Speed

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: More Haste, Less Speed.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Dr. Doris Jeanette, Body-Emotions-Energy Teacher
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A British friend was getting some tea while I was getting some water.
We were standing close together at my local pool. Knowing her quite
well, I said, “You reject the Royalty and accept the tea.” She laughed
and said, “Yes, that could go on my tombstone!”

The Brit continued, “Another phase on my tombstone could be, “More
haste, less speed.” I paused and had her repeat the phase so I could
absorb what she was saying. She continued, “In Britain here is a big
difference in meaning between the two words, haste and speed. Haste
slows you down and you make a lot of mistakes.”

Thinking to myself, “That makes sense, anxiety always interferes with
being effective in the moment. So, haste is what you do when you are
anxious. I usually use the word rush.” As I was taking in what she was
saying, I connected our haste versus speed conversation to another
message I received from a friend the day before. Her message was:
“Slow down to speed up.”

Ah, I’m receiving this important message from the cosmos and giving
it to you.

Take note of how you are doing what you are doing. The rabbit and
turtle story also comes to mind as I am writing this. Take your Time.
Take baby steps, slowly, carefully—as you learn to do something new.
Or even not new! Being in the moment is the key to being successful.
Your baby steps work because you get to where you are going.

Taking small steps, that keep you on the ground, are successful in
overcoming anxiety naturally. Take the home study course, Overcome
Anxiety Naturally if you have not yet learned to take baby steps.

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So, what’s on your tombstone?

Enjoy having fun and being playful as a way of life. This is your
life. Live it well.

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How to Use Your Body for Feedback about Reality and Denial

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Your Body Knows.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Dr. Doris Jeanette, Body-Emotions-Energy Teacher
Visit: http://www.drjeanette.com

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A friend was telling me about her experience with diarrhea and
stomach problems so severe she rushed to the emergency room. The
physicians used all their tests, looking for medical problems and
could not find anything. I asked, “Was it anxiety?” She looked me
straight in the face and said, “But I am not anxious.”

I have been thinking a lot about denial. What is it really and how
can we tell when we are denying something really important that
we need to know. Sigmund Freud, first described “denial as refusing
to acknowledge upsetting facts about external events and internal
ones, including memories, thoughts, and feelings.”

It always amazes me when I discover that I have been denying something.
How could I be so unaware of what my body is saying? Diarrhea is a loud
message.

The more I ponder and explore denial it seems to me that some of us
deny facts that are pleasant and enjoyable as well as upsetting ones.
If this is correct, we use denial to keep ourselves feeling bad,
helpless and victimized by life events. Wow, that victim mentality
can really creep up on you.

The next time someone says something to you that you think is not
true, pause. You could be denying something that you need to know to
stop hurting yourself. Or you could be denying how wonderful your
life really is! After the pause, breathe and feel your body. Receive
the obvious information in your body that would help you feel better,
stronger and happier.

Listen carefully, deeply and often to what your body is expressing.
The body does not lie; it tells you the truth if you are willing to
listen to it.

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