Personal Growth Tip: Celebrate Life and Death with Body, Heart and Soul

friendsFollow Doris Jeanette on Twitter:

Be in the moment with your feelings and emotions.




The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Be in the moment.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach


I just went to a funeral and had one of the best times I have had in my life with old and new friends. Amazing but true.

You have probably heard about the death celebrations, often attributed to the Native cultures, where the people left behind enjoy themselves instead of feeling so sad and blue. Most of us have never had a joyful death celebration. Well, I just did.

This funeral was a true celebration of our dear friend, Fran. She left behind a variety of interesting friends and beloved family who came together to say goodbye to her. Many of us cried and felt sad during the church service when we heard the beautiful music.

After the short and meaningful service, we walked outside into the bright sunlight and streets of Philadelphia. Her family had planned a fantastic sit down meal right next door to the church at a Center City Italian restaurant. This meant that we could all be together sitting around big round tables in comfort and style.

We spent two leisurely hours laughing, eating, drinking and sharing stories. It was a grand and glorious way to celebrate Fran’s death, life and spirit. We felt nourished, loved and grateful.

Let death be a true celebration of life, your life.

You are only here for a very short period of time. Yep, you don’t have that much time to be in the flesh. When someone you know dies, let it be a reminder that you need to live more fully.

I am talking to myself as much as to you. I just about did not go to this event today. Tuesday is my day to spend at least two hours writing this newsletter after my morning clients and before an afternoon tele-class. Wow, I am so glad I did not resist this event and let my “shoulds” dictate my day.

Ponder your life and choices.

Could it be that you need to spend some of your money on yourself and your desires and dreams? Do you need to take the time to relax in the middle of the day and do nothing? Do you need to stop everything and just be in the moment and sip your water while listening to a person you have never known before?

Being in the moment is the only way you can truly enjoy your life. Being in your head thinking about the future or the past does not satisfy the soul. Your soul needs to be nourished, fed and respected. Take time to listen to what your soul needs today and make sure you deliver the goods before you let a week go by.

Honor both life and death as they occur. Feel the experience in your body, heart and soul. Otherwise, your time on Earth will be over and you will have missed the reason you were born.


THINKING TOO MUCH? If you worry too much to enjoy the moment, get the help you need to begin the process of taming your thoughts. Without obsessive thoughts you will be able to relax and have more fun. One hour personal growth audio, $29.97, money back guarantee.

Read more about order:

BONUS: Free audio, “Break the Grip of Anxiety: An Overview” if you order “Tame Your Thoughts” by Monday, Oct. 14. One hour, $29.97.


ENJOY MAKING LOVE: Making love is fun and playful. If you are a man who wants to improve your lovemaking skills take the home study course, “For Men: Become a Better Lover.” Your body needs to love and be loved. 10 written lessons and 7 hours of audio, $199.97.

Read more and order:

ENJOY MAKING LOVE: If you are a woman who wants to improve your sexual health take the home study course, “Overcome Anxiety Naturally.” You learn how to relax, stop thinking and get in your body. 10 written lessons, 5 hours of audio, $149.97.

Read more and order: