Relationship Healing: Equal Relationships Create Healthy Energy Flow Called Intimacy


The Vibrant Moment – Holistic Mental Health Tip: Equal = flow.
From the Center for New Psychology
Publisher: Doris Jeanette, Holistic Psychology Mentor, Coach
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If you didn’t take the relationship test last week, “How Equal Do I Feel,”  you might enjoy taking it now.

If you did take the relationship test and you have questions, send them my way.  A few people mentioned they were unable to tell if they felt equal, inferior or superior because they had strong feelings of empathy and gratitude toward the person, group or object.

I will explain what feelings of empathy mean so you can more fully understand what you experienced when you took the test.  The goal of the “How Equal Do I Feel” exercise was to help you become more aware of how you feel toward the different realities that exist in your world.

For you to achieve more vibrant moments, you need to become more conscious of how you are relating to your world.  How you relate to your world is extremely important to your success in intimate relationships as well as in business, finance and spiritual transformation.

When you do not feel equal to a person, a group or an object, you get one set of results. When you do feel equal you get another set of results.

When you feel inferior or superior to another person, there is no connection.  You miss the other person.  This means there is no intimacy.  Thus there cannot be any energy exchanged between you. The results are zero energy.

This simple physical fact explains the results you get in life.  When you do not connect with your world, you do not experience the benefits that are available to you, all around you, every minute of every day. Instead, you experience a lack, a void, a disconnection, nothingness.  So your life is ordinary and mundane, if not worse.

Therefore, the best relationship advice I could give you is to learn how to feel equal to others.  When you feel equal, you relate equal.  Then you will get dramatically different results.  You will connect with others.

When you connect, there is a strong energy exchange between you and your world. This energy connection is what makes you stronger, more resilient and successful in intimate relationships as well as in business, finance and spiritual transformation.

This means that when you feel empathy with a person, groups or object you are definitely feeling equal, not inferior or superior.  Instead of zero energy, you are connecting energetically with the other person, group or object.  This means you have plenty of exciting energy which will give you many vibrant moments of being alive.

This energy connection is called intimacy.  When you are intimate with someone, you have strong emotional feelings such as love, gratitude, desire and reverence.  These are just a few of the many benefits you receive when you relate equally to your world.

Let me know your thoughts, feelings and comments. Post them below.

Relate equal to create energy flow.


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