The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Become stronger.
Often people do not get help with their love relationship
problems until it is too late. So the relationship ends
in a divorce or a break up.
The major reason love relationships end in a divorce or
a break up is because one or both of the people stop
For example, a client of mine was working on her anxiety
attacks and her husband would not participate. She was
becoming more relaxed and he was not. She was becoming
more assertive. He was not. She was getting stronger.
He was not.
The relationship ended in a divorce because he did not
do anything to improve himself.
If he had learned to relax and become more assertive,
the relationship would have flourished.
The solution to healthy love relationships seems so simple
and reasonable. However, so many people choose to suffer
great pain instead of improving their emotional and mental
It is a given that your past learning issues will surface
in love relationships and cause you problems. There is no
way to avoid this reality.
Therefore, you can engage in personal growth while you are
in your love relationship or you can wait until you get a
divorce or break up with your partner.
The action you need to take is the same. You need to become
more loving, self-confident and emotionally secure.
To achieve these goals, you need to learn to reduce your
anxiety, become more assertive, love your emotional self
and open your heart.
After a divorce or break up you are in great pain. This
emotional pain is the gift that can help you grow. If
you engage in positive self-improvement behaviors, you
will not repeat the same pain again in your next love
Therefore, if you are in or out of a love relationship,
be brave. Learn to relax, become more assertive, love
your emotional self and open your heart.
The end result is that you will be stronger. So, no
matter what others choose to do, you will be enjoying
colorful, vibrant moments of being alive.
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