Anxiety Tip: Don’t Let the Holidays Push You, Move With Snow

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: Stop pushing.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
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Do you push yourself and others?
Do you pressure yourself to do certain things, like right now?

Even pushing yourself to do the so-called “healthy thing” is a clever way for your ego to get you back in control again. As soon as your ego has you in any psychological state that is controlling your energy, you are sure to be anxious.

Therefore, as soon as you notice you are controlling yourself or others, start looking for your anxious self. She will be hanging around somewhere scared and nervous. Anxiety is what makes you want and need to control yourself in the first place.

Never forget this connection between your anxiety and your controlling ego. The more anxious you are, the more controlling you are. Controlling people are always anxious and scared. This means there is a little boy or girl inside your adult body that is scared and anxious when you start pushing.

If you were not anxious, you would be relaxed and doing what you need to do. You would not be controlling yourself by pushing your energy. Anxiety is what makes you push and pressure yourself to move too fast. When you move too fast, you never experience relaxation, holistic health or peak performances.

Another factor you need to consider is, the more aware you are of your anxiety and fear, the better. Denying your anxiety or exaggerating it is not helpful. If you do not know you are anxious, your anxiety controls you and makes you sick and miserable. If you do know you are anxious and scared, you are in a position of power. You can do what you need to do to help your anxious self feel less anxious.

Learning how to reduce your anxiety is essential for healthy living. Anxiety really does make you sick in mind and body. Once your reduce your anxiety, then you can get down to the bottom-line fears that are paralyzing you. There is always a real fear underneath your anxiety that you need to address in order to move forward.

Paying attention to your real fears and moving through them makes sure you take care of what you really do need to take care of in life. It also makes sure you do the healthy things you need to do without pushing yourself to do them.

When you are in touch with your real fear, you can totally trust yourself and your pathway forward. You are on solid ground because your real fear keeps you honest, clean and clear.

Without your fear, you could just be another ego faking self-confidence. Or in a manic state headed for depression. Or thinking you are perfect and self-righteous.

Your fear keeps you in your body, grounded in the earth and ready for any real danger that could be around the corner. When you are in touch with your real fear, you can trust you will do that which is healthy for you because you are paying attention to what needs to be done.

This makes it safe for you to relax, take off your shoes and have a good time working and playing. You are in touch with reality and all is well.

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Relationship Advice: Open Your Heart to Increase Natural Health and Wellness

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The Vibrant Moment – Remember: To connect with others.
Tools from the Center for New Psychology
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Were you able to explore, find or plug into another person this week? Better than before? Or with a new person?

Last week I explained the magic that happens between you and another person when both of you are open and let each other close. The extra energy that you experience when you are plugged into another person is amazingly strong. This is the reason opening your heart is so beneficial to your health and wellness.

When you connect with another person, you literally have more healthy energy available to you to use as you please. This automatically makes you stronger in body and mind. Just being close to one other person gives you many natural health and wellness benefits. You feel better about yourself, have more self-confidence, feel saner, more grounded and loved. This is just for starters.

This energy exchange between you and others is potent. Do not just think of romantic love; that is of course, potent. However, the mother and child relationship and the friend relationship are equally potent. The mother and child relationship is the first and most potent relationship.

Therein lies the problem most people have with intimacy. Not to blame mothers, my wish is to make you more aware of how important it is to be attached to your mother in a healthy way. If your mother was not good at attachment or you have an unhealthy attachment with your mother, then you need to correct this relationship problem now.

As an adult, you can learn to be emotionally and physically attached to others in a healthy, emotionally mature fashion. There is no reason to blame yourself or your mother. There is nothing missing from your learning that you cannot supply yourself. You can learn to feel safe and comfortable being open so others can connect with you.

Take the time to invest in yourself so you experience the natural health and wellness benefits of being connected to other human beings.

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Relationship Advice: How to Get Close to Others? Plug in!

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The Vibrant Moment – Plug In to Connect.

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Do you long to be close to others emotionally?
Do you want to give and receive hugs with ease?

I used to watch other students at East Carolina University, a very long time ago, hug each other with comfort and ease. As a freshman psychology student, I desired to have the closeness I saw between my fellow classmates. Yet, I did not have a clue how the boys and girls I saw connected so effortlessly with each other.

During my sophomore year, my desire to be close to people outside of my family gave me the courage to allow my friends to move closer to me. Slowly, I relaxed into the comfort of sitting closer to friends in the dorm and at the student center. I shared my feelings with them by writing poetry and letting them read it, especially when the poem was about them. As I let my friends see who I really was inside, the magic happened – we connected.

After studying the emotional and energy dynamics of relationships for 37 years, I know that being intimate is a fact that is supported by solid physical data. This is the reason I base my new holistic psychology approach on energy and the laws of physics. It does not matter what you think; if you want to be close to others, you must allow a physical connection to take place.

There is a specific point, spot, physical place where you must plug into another person. There are no words or topic that allows a connection to occur. However, you can use words and topics to find a way to get into another person’s world. You must find a point of entry into the other person’s reality. You must be an emotionally safe person in order to be successful. Otherwise, you are not trustworthy. Once you plug into the other person, they must receive you.

When there is an energy exchange between two people, the magic happens.

Most people miss each other. They live their lives on the surface bouncing off each other. They think they are close to others and yet their body is not relaxed enough to make a physical connection. Neither is their heart open enough to allow a genuine emotional intimacy to occur.

Do you let others close?

Your image, which is your ego, is composed of frozen energy, which does not allow a genuine physical connection to occur. Therefore, if you relate, image to image and ego to ego, you do not experience a genuine closeness because you are not literally plugging into another person. Images and egos bounce off each other and do not connect energetically with each other.

Therefore, if you share your image and ego with others you feel empty, isolated and void. On the other hand, if you share the emotional truth in your heart and the physical truth in your body, there is a chance another person will receive you. If they do, you experience a delicious, exciting, comforting vibrant moment. You feel full of life because your real self has connected with another real self and there is the magic of intimacy.

In order to share yourself with others you have to know yourself. So the first step is to connect with your real emotional and physical self. You must be connected with yourself before others can connect with you. Otherwise there is no real place for others to plug in.

Plug into yourself to connect with others.

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